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NJ-CARE & its allies work to screw New Jersey adoptees and abandoned children for generations to come

Mourning Dress and Hat – 1870s (Owned by Obscura Antiques & Oddities of New York City) via 19th Century Post Today, I’m feeling very Casandra. I shouldn’t have to blog this, I’ve written it all before, over and over again. Today’s events are everything I’ve continually warned of year in and year out. NJ-CARE’s short […]

Filed under: Uncategorized on May 9th, 2011
Tags: A1406, Adam Pertman, Bastard Nation, Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute, human rights, Jean Strauss, New Jersey, New Jersey A1406, NJ-CARE

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Blogging again, a personal post- surveilling the sewer, through new eyes

I haven’t written a post here since Nov of 2011 for a number of reasons. I’ve needed the time. Back on May 10th, 2010, the day before my birthday, I received a copy of my unamended original birth certificate. Even the day prior, I had bemoaned the regressing state of Bastard rights, decried the “Faustian […]

Filed under: Uncategorized on April 26th, 2012
Tags: blogging, surveilling the sewer

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Where do we (Mike and I) go from here?

Joanne Wolf Small asked: So, where do you go from here? The answer deserved a post of its own, though I’ll let Mike find his own voice in his own timing and post whatever he adds as a guest blog. First of all, we settle back in here at home after the trip Mike and […]

Filed under: Uncategorized on July 25th, 2011

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New Jersey- let A752 die: the conflation of family medical history with authentic restored access, white outs, and preemptive restraining orders among other nightmare senarios

Over the past two days Marley‘s already laid out the basics of the situation, so I won’t attempt to rehash her fine work, first go see her posts about the NJ mess: NEW JERSEY: ANYTHING TO GET A BILL PASSED. WE LEAVE EVERYBODY BEHIND! BASTARD NATION’S LETTER TO NJ HOUSE SPEAKER JOSEPH ROBERTS, JR–PLEASE OPPOSE […]

Filed under: Uncategorized on December 12th, 2009
Tags: "bastardized" by the State, "birthparent", "birthparent" disclosure veto, "compromised" bil, "parental medical information", "request for nondisclosure" letter, "will be left alone", 'different', 'I hope for mine, 'quick fix', 000 from the General Fund, 1 year, 60 days, a glob of white-out smeared over identifying information, a legal assumption of an on file and notarzied, a pay to play scam, a pre-existing restraining order, a state authentically supportive of our full equality, a violation of HIPAA, A752, access, adopted and 'nondisclosured, adopted citizens, adoptee equality, adoptee rights, adoptee rights bill, adults conduct their interpersonal affairs, Alabama, Alaska, allow A752 to die, and the parental addresses at the time of birth, Asbury Park Press, asking for what you really want, Assembly Speake, authentic need, automatically seals the obc of all persons anonymously dumped under the state's "safe haven" law, babydump, Bastard, Bastard Nation, Bastardette, belies any claim to speak for adopted people as a class, biological parents, board member, broken bill, Carol Barbieri, claiming to represent adoptees, cleaning up an oversight, compromised from the get go bill, compromising away’, confiscate, conflate, Conflating in search and reunion interpersonal issues, constitutional and human right to free association, create a whole new 'right' of sorts, damage, direct expense of adoptee human and constitutional rights, direct personal cost, dirty little secrets, disclosure veto, discretion, dopted people's restored acces, dump ushers, dumpees, Dumplings, dumpster, ears of work, emand adopted people go through an intermediary, embarrassment, entangling medical histories into state mandated requirements, enuine civil rights issue of records access, equal treatment under law, equality, equality and access, equality for adopted people, erase existing OBC information, ethics, ettle for what amounts to table scraps, EXISTENCE as members of a a class of peopl, explicitly circumvented, false and interpersonal issues conflated, false conflation of a bill, falsely folded in, family medical history, finance the cost of a national advertising campaign, firsthand, fiscal note of $90, forced down chutes, forfeited any genuine claim to representing any adoptees other than themselves, form yet another new class, government serving the role of enforcer, granted or denied, granting new powers to parents, harm, hio's contortionist deforms, hiteout "alternative", Horrible excuses for legislation, horrific details contained therein, human rights, hunting them down with the adoptee-requisite drywall hatchet, ile a notarized, individual medical histories, initial contact, inserts state interference, interpersonal relationships, Joseph J. 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