Comments for Baby Love Child http://www.babylovechild.org Yet another Bastard Blog Fri, 29 Jul 2011 21:20:28 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 Comment on I have resigned my Bastard Nation membership by Baby Love Child http://www.babylovechild.org/2011/07/12/i-have-resigned-my-bastard-nation-membership/comment-page-1/#comment-30608 Baby Love Child Fri, 29 Jul 2011 21:20:28 +0000 http://www.babylovechild.org/?p=6240#comment-30608 Couldn't agree with you more Brent. The sealed records system itself must go. The documents and falsified birth certificates are state sanctioned lies, some of which contain key evidence to crimes. I requested access to my records twice while still a minor. I'm sorry for the cruelty and bullshit others put you through, and yes, adoption and the expectations were very clearly central to that. People can be unbearably vicious. *** Also I should leave a link here pointing to the post I wrote as a response to Joanne- <a href="http://www.babylovechild.org/2011/07/25/where-do-we-mike-and-i-go-from-here/" rel="nofollow">Where do we (Mike and I) go from here?</a> Couldn’t agree with you more Brent.

The sealed records system itself must go.

The documents and falsified birth certificates are state sanctioned lies, some of which contain key evidence to crimes.

I requested access to my records twice while still a minor.

I’m sorry for the cruelty and bullshit others put you through, and yes, adoption and the expectations were very clearly central to that.

People can be unbearably vicious.

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Also I should leave a link here pointing to the post I wrote as a response to Joanne- Where do we (Mike and I) go from here?

]]> Comment on I have resigned my Bastard Nation membership by Brent Snavely http://www.babylovechild.org/2011/07/12/i-have-resigned-my-bastard-nation-membership/comment-page-1/#comment-30607 Brent Snavely Fri, 29 Jul 2011 19:28:48 +0000 http://www.babylovechild.org/?p=6240#comment-30607 Age 25 is far too late, and 18, despite laws pertaining to the 'age of majority' fail to take into account the timeing and nature of adolescents' development of identity. As one who was spat on, beaten and told to 'get back on the reservation' and yet instructed to check the 'White' box, I perceive sealed records to be entirely amoral. Age 25 is far too late, and 18, despite laws pertaining to the ‘age of majority’ fail to take into account the timeing and nature of adolescents’ development of identity. As one who was spat on, beaten and told to ‘get back on the reservation’ and yet instructed to check the ‘White’ box, I perceive sealed records to be entirely amoral.

]]> Comment on Adoption in relation to Abortion provision, notes on clinics that embrace adoption marketing by Baby Love Child http://www.babylovechild.org/2010/06/19/adoption-in-relation-to-abortion-provision-notes-on-clinics-that-embrace-adoption-marketing/comment-page-1/#comment-30601 Baby Love Child Fri, 29 Jul 2011 09:40:34 +0000 http://www.babylovechild.org/?p=3450#comment-30601 I feel the need to also point out the obvious- in the US, far more women die in childbirth each year than die as a result of complications from abortions, (<a href="http://www.ajog.org/article/S0002-9378(05)00973-7/abstract" rel="nofollow">abortion is 14 times safer than childbirth</a>) and in terms of risk of abortion complications, <a href="http://www.guttmacher.org/pubs/fb_induced_abortion.html" rel="nofollow">fewer than 0.3% of women who have abortions experience a complication that requires hospitalization</a>. So when clinics promote eventual adoptions as if such were merely some "third choice" they are actually advocating not only a path to parenthood (just one often without any access to the eventual child) but also an outcome that poses a much higher risk to the woman and her health. I feel the need to also point out the obvious- in the US, far more women die in childbirth each year than die as a result of complications from abortions, (abortion is 14 times safer than childbirth) and in terms of risk of abortion complications, fewer than 0.3% of women who have abortions experience a complication that requires hospitalization.

So when clinics promote eventual adoptions as if such were merely some “third choice” they are actually advocating not only a path to parenthood (just one often without any access to the eventual child) but also an outcome that poses a much higher risk to the woman and her health.

]]> Comment on I have resigned my Bastard Nation membership by Joanne Wolf Small http://www.babylovechild.org/2011/07/12/i-have-resigned-my-bastard-nation-membership/comment-page-1/#comment-30527 Joanne Wolf Small Sun, 24 Jul 2011 13:35:49 +0000 http://www.babylovechild.org/?p=6240#comment-30527 So, where do you go from here? So, where do you go from here?

]]> Comment on NJ-CARE & its allies work to screw New Jersey adoptees and abandoned children for generations to come by Trace A DeMeyer http://www.babylovechild.org/2011/05/09/nj-care-its-allies-work-to-screw-new-jersey-adoptees-and-abandoned-children-for-generations-to-come/comment-page-1/#comment-27994 Trace A DeMeyer Tue, 10 May 2011 21:43:03 +0000 http://www.babylovechild.org/?p=6149#comment-27994 I agree with you completely and I stand on the side of all adopted people receiving equitable treatment under law and deserve to have our records restored to us for no other reason than this is a matter of our basic human rights. I agree with you completely and I stand on the side of all adopted people receiving equitable treatment under law and deserve to have our records restored to us for no other reason than this is a matter of our basic human rights.

]]> Comment on NJ-CARE & its allies work to screw New Jersey adoptees and abandoned children for generations to come by Anita Walker Field http://www.babylovechild.org/2011/05/09/nj-care-its-allies-work-to-screw-new-jersey-adoptees-and-abandoned-children-for-generations-to-come/comment-page-1/#comment-27988 Anita Walker Field Tue, 10 May 2011 13:48:34 +0000 http://www.babylovechild.org/?p=6149#comment-27988 I think you have summed up in one sentence the difference between us and them: " Our genuine “birthright” is that of equal treatment under law." It's really discouraging to see a flawed bill close to becoming a law. If it does, I worry about the precedent it will set for other states. I think you have summed up in one sentence the difference between us and them:

” Our genuine “birthright” is that of equal treatment under law.”

It’s really discouraging to see a flawed bill close to becoming a law. If it does, I worry about the precedent it will set for other states.

]]> Comment on Guest blog- He’s Not “Legit:” Adam Pertman’s adoption marketing is an ongoing threat to human rights by Anne http://www.babylovechild.org/2011/03/08/guest-blog-he%e2%80%99s-not-%e2%80%9clegit%e2%80%9d-adam-pertman%e2%80%99s-adoption-marketing-is-an-ongoing-threat-to-human-rights/comment-page-1/#comment-24352 Anne Sun, 20 Mar 2011 19:22:01 +0000 http://www.babylovechild.org/?p=6083#comment-24352 Well said. Pertman has no right to speak for adoptees, and his farce of this being a triad and a group for all is nothing but pure nonsense! Very glad to see him being outed, he just disgusts me. Someone else mentioned abused adoptees and I agree, they do not exist to this adoption zealot adopter. The fact is adoption is an abnormal social experiment that has failed. More adoptees are abused than not as well. It is an unnatural situation and will never be normal so - Gag me Pertman! Well said. Pertman has no right to speak for adoptees, and his farce of this being a triad and a group for all is nothing but pure nonsense! Very glad to see him being outed, he just disgusts me. Someone else mentioned abused adoptees and I agree, they do not exist to this adoption zealot adopter. The fact is adoption is an abnormal social experiment that has failed. More adoptees are abused than not as well. It is an unnatural situation and will never be normal so – Gag me Pertman!

]]> Comment on Guest blog- He’s Not “Legit:” Adam Pertman’s adoption marketing is an ongoing threat to human rights by Baby Love Child http://www.babylovechild.org/2011/03/08/guest-blog-he%e2%80%99s-not-%e2%80%9clegit%e2%80%9d-adam-pertman%e2%80%99s-adoption-marketing-is-an-ongoing-threat-to-human-rights/comment-page-1/#comment-23489 Baby Love Child Wed, 09 Mar 2011 01:34:43 +0000 http://www.babylovechild.org/?p=6083#comment-23489 Oh Kerry, I <strong>WISH</strong> I had time to reply to some of the great stuff across on your link there. I had completely missed it, but deeply appreciate it. Not merely the parts pointing folks across towards my post, but your whole comment, excellent stuff in there, pulling it all together again, as usual As I said, <strong>GREAT</strong> stuff. Oh Kerry, I WISH I had time to reply to some of the great stuff across on your link there.

I had completely missed it, but deeply appreciate it. Not merely the parts pointing folks across towards my post, but your whole comment, excellent stuff in there, pulling it all together again, as usual

As I said, GREAT stuff.

]]> Comment on Guest blog- He’s Not “Legit:” Adam Pertman’s adoption marketing is an ongoing threat to human rights by Sandy Young http://www.babylovechild.org/2011/03/08/guest-blog-he%e2%80%99s-not-%e2%80%9clegit%e2%80%9d-adam-pertman%e2%80%99s-adoption-marketing-is-an-ongoing-threat-to-human-rights/comment-page-1/#comment-23487 Sandy Young Wed, 09 Mar 2011 00:38:30 +0000 http://www.babylovechild.org/?p=6083#comment-23487 Thanks for this. This is excellent. I have linked it in my post, and hope that is okay, I agree with every word. Adam Pertman is a huckster and an impertinent little banty rooster. He has NO Right to speak on behalf of those who were the source of his parenthood. Thanks for this. This is excellent. I have linked it in my post, and hope that is okay, I agree with every word. Adam Pertman is a huckster and an impertinent little banty rooster. He has NO Right to speak on behalf of those who were the source of his parenthood.

]]> Comment on Guest blog- He’s Not “Legit:” Adam Pertman’s adoption marketing is an ongoing threat to human rights by Kerry http://www.babylovechild.org/2011/03/08/guest-blog-he%e2%80%99s-not-%e2%80%9clegit%e2%80%9d-adam-pertman%e2%80%99s-adoption-marketing-is-an-ongoing-threat-to-human-rights/comment-page-1/#comment-23485 Kerry Wed, 09 Mar 2011 00:20:23 +0000 http://www.babylovechild.org/?p=6083#comment-23485 Do you seriously want me to get stared on A. Pertman? I will, if necessary... because, aww hell... two words: abused adoptees. Yea, lucky bastard that I happen to be, I know all about the PTB in Adoptionland, and the stories 'they' (paid spokes-models) want to sell the general public. Pertman's lines, they are indeed CLASSIC! Excuse me, my gag reflex tells me it's time to vomit. [ BTW freakin' LOVED what you posted the other day about the drowning pentagon... it inspired me to revisit old posts on PPL. If interested, feel free to look at "Changing shape, over time" http://poundpuplegacy.org/node/10916#comment-13674 ] Are all eyes open yet? If not, I think I have a few good years left in me, (God willing...) ~k Do you seriously want me to get stared on A. Pertman?

I will, if necessary… because, aww hell… two words: abused adoptees.

Yea, lucky bastard that I happen to be, I know all about the PTB in Adoptionland, and the stories ‘they’ (paid spokes-models) want to sell the general public. Pertman’s lines, they are indeed CLASSIC!

Excuse me, my gag reflex tells me it’s time to vomit.

[ BTW freakin' LOVED what you posted the other day about the drowning pentagon... it inspired me to revisit old posts on PPL. If interested, feel free to look at "Changing shape, over time" http://poundpuplegacy.org/node/10916#comment-13674 ]

Are all eyes open yet? If not, I think I have a few good years left in me, (God willing…) ~k

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